September 27, 2007

Family History
Write anything you might know about our family history... Interesting stories

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Rosemary Brothers on September 28, 2007 10:34 AM
Dorothy, thanks for the lovely comments.

Dad's stories gave a very similar impression:  Jesse Calvin could be very strict and patriarchal, and also favored or disfavored certain children (Dad, Cal, and Priscilla seemed to be on the disfavored list - very interesting because I think Dad and Cal looked the most like Jesse Calvin), but Agnes was a loving and much loved mother.  Dad said that his Mother taught them how to recognize wildflowers.  Dad called his parents Mommie and Poppie.  He remembered them doing many chores together:  Poppie used to knead the bread because it was too heavy for Mommie - imagine how much bread they needed with about 8 or more kids in the house.  Because Dad and Uncle Jim were separated by 27 years, Dad thought that all 11 children were at home only once, for a Sunday dinner.

Dad talked a lot about their home in Polley.  It had been built as a saloon and dance hall for lumberjacks, but then the town voted against the saloon, so the building was available at a bargain price.  The downstairs had the print shop in front, and living rooms in back.  The upstairs was one big room with a large stage at one end, and the kids all slept upstairs with curtains to divide the room into different bedrooms.  The kids used the stage to put on plays and recite poetry.  Isn't it easy to imagine Dad or Aunt Isa or Uncle Al on a stage?  The oldest children did have it tougher.  In part, probably, because they were quickly displaced by new babies, and had to take responsibility for the younger children.  From Aunt Rose's stories, when she and Priscilla were little, their parents had more time to relax and tell stories after supper every night.  Dad and Rose and Carol have all mentioned that there was a room with a large table strewn with magazines.  Someone once told me a story about choosing Carol's name from the latest issue of Colliers.

Yikes!  I could go on way too long . . .

Rose



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Jim Brothers on September 28, 2007 10:40 AM

Hello Each, wherever you maybe.

Some comments. James D. Brothers  (Uncle Jim)


This is the way I understand it, "Woody" also may have fallen out of
favor.
however us younger children were always taught to honor our older
brothers and sisters.

Yes kneeded the bread and on occasions, probably Sunday mornings, would
make what he called tortillas, (other families called them dough gobs)
fried bread dough about a 1/2 inch thick. We would eat these with a
mixture of syrup/honey and butter which was called mixum-muxum. 
 maybe, the family reunion in ???? was to be the firsttime as adults that
we would be together but Cal died on the way to Wiscosin so it never
happened.
Yes the printing shop in front with a large stove, and the gas engine
powered washing machine,  then a room of sorts where Mommie and Poppie
and the babies slept and the library was kept and the guns 30-30 rifle,
marlin  22 rifle and 32 colt automatic pistol
then a lean to type room on the end  which was a kitchen/dinning area and
setting area.
Yes magazine were stored upstairs. Sunset, Colliers and probably Staurday
Evening Post. We recieved the Milwakee Journal newspaper by mail with its
traditional green sheet. One of the mags had a Charles Atlas ad which I
sent for his booklet "Dynamic Tension" on boby building

When the radio would work (It had car battery for the six volt vacuum
tube filiments and a 150 volt dry cell for the other vacunm tube
circuits) we could listen to some of the news, feature programs and prize
fights. Poppie was a great fan of "Joe" Lewis, We listen to station WCCO
out of Minneapolis

 I will work on more later  JDB




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Carol Lapham-Bartlett on September 28, 2007 11:19 AM
The two preceding are from Rosemary & Jim.  I  put them in the family history.  Jim's comments are in response to Rosemary's information.  I wish I could scroll back and read the above 2 articles while I write this as I have some comments of my own to make.  
Our house had an outside stairway until about 1937 or so.  give or take a year.  When we had the house re-roofed Poppie had the inside stairway put in.  The stairway had a trap door and the aforementioned large table also had several spindles and a bunch of window glass on it.  
One time Boy Adams wanted to play with Nina Smith and me and He kept pushing the trap door up with his head.  I kept jumping on the door.  Finally head and door connected and he was knocked down the stairs.  He just missed running one of those sharp spindles through him.  Of course, by this time Poppie had passed on.  This kind of behavior would not have been tolerated by him.  
Regarding Tortillas, which we called tartiyas, were made when mommie was making bread and there was no bread for lunch.  She would cut off a hunk of bread and put it in the frying pan.  Like Jim said, mixum, muxum. This could be any combination of butter and a sweetener: sugar, syrup, honey. Maybe even molasses on occasion. Ugh!
Poppie usually made the pancakes for breakfast.  He would make them, Mommie would cook them for the kids and Poppie, when Poppie was through he would take over the job while Mommie ate and the kids finished up.  Then, all of the batter left was poured on the griddle and a giant pancake was made for the dogs.  
The outside stairway:  In icy weather when the steps were slippery, Poppie would come upstairs and carry us down the slippery steps 'piggy back' one by one. This was an "Adventure."
Poppie was a good story teller and would tell us about his adventures when he was a kid.  He cowboyed for a while and would tell us that when the cook got drunk he would do the cooking.  Very believable as Poppie made the best baked beans I have ever eaten.  Just barely juicy underneath and a nice thick crust on top.  Delicious covered with butter and eaten with home made bread!
Poppie also read to us and we grew up on tales from Edgar Alan Poe and O'Henry.  And, lots of poetry. 
Isa wrote a lot about our family life.  Maybe Dorothy or Henry have some of these stories and can put them in the family history.  All for now, Aunt Carol, Mom or Grandma
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James Brothers on October 1, 2007 12:37 AM
As mention in my reply to Alan J. B., I am playing catch up today. It is
a cold fall day and I do not feel up to outside.
As mentioned in reply to Alan do not know how much I can help with info
but will comment on Dorothy's E mail below.
 
The last time we were together about Jan of 1999 Rose and Al got into a
rather stressed
discussion about an event that had occurred. So various accounts may not
always agree.
Aunt Deloris has commented and I concur If there are several Brothers
together it will not be long until
the dictionaries, encyclopedias, maps and other documents will be taken
out to show or prove a point.
As the "illiterate little brother" I usually just kept quiet.
 
Isa had/has many files, as authors have, some about family things. I have
not seen these in detail but perhaps
Dorothy and Henry will have a chance to go through them...throw out some
and keep the pertinent.
 
I believe that Rose and Priscilla may have taken Poppies discipline as
"Bark is worse then his bite"
But I do not remember any harshness from Poppie. Got spanked once for
climbing on the top of the kitchen cook
stove (wood stove with warming ovens and a hot water reservoir). I later
learned about hot stoves,
when I fell off the stack of wood in the wood box and onto the heating
stove
 
Popie and Mommie seldom argued. One tme Poppie theatened to leave home
but did not and things were settled.
Once I told Aunt Deloris I was going to leave. She told me to decide
which two of our four children I was going to take with me.
I could not decide, so never left.
 
Carol and I were compliant. Carol would complain about me getting to eat
butter on my oatmeal as Poppie did
and she had to eat milk on her oatmeal. But I do not remember her getting
sent away from the table or anything like that.
After Poppie died Mommie threatened to send me to the "reform school" on
occasion.
 
About drying the dishes. The children were more likely to dry the dishes
but Poppie did his share.
As for the "male gender" helping with the dishes. Many a kiss has been
stolen or a secert caress given
over the kitchen sink and a shared dish towel.
 
The only grandchildren that Mommie saw were Clayton and Henry. Al (Tenny)
did come home once at Easter 1936???
 
(Uncle Jim)
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Rosemary Brothers on October 1, 2007 12:38 PM
Uncle Jim, et al,

Thanks so much for posting all your comments!

Your comment about reference books reminds me of a story.  Once, when my brother Ben, was home from Colorado in the 1980's, Dad and Ben and I got into a discussion about just exactly where Jesse Calvin had worked as a forest ranger in Colorado.  It wasn't long before we had the encyclopedia and a US atlas out on the kitchen table.  I remembered something I had heard, I thought from Aunt Rose, so perhaps this is repeated from person to person, that "if you have three Brothers in a room, pretty soon the reference books will be out."  Ben (my brother) smiled, and said, "Are you sure you need three?"

In one of your earlier postings, you mentioned that the large printing press in the front room at Polley was not used.  I wonder if this was a consequence of the Depression?  Surely it was used in earlier years?  This is where we need Dad or Aunt Sis or Aunt Isa or Uncle Al to fill in the details, but alas, that's not possible.  Uncle Jim, was your father printing a newspaper when you were a child?  He did two papers in earlier years, one the usual town paper, and the other a personal project named "The Homecrofter."  At one point, he owned a second print shop in Hawkins.  My dad moved to Hawkins to run that one, and therefore graduated from Hawkins High School rather than Gilman.

Rose

Rosemary Brothers (daughter of Ben and Jo)
Madison, Wisconsin
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carol Lapham-Bartlett on April 12, 2008 12:13 PM
yes, the large printing press was used before the move to Polley but after the move to Polley I don't believe a newspaper was ever printed.  Aunt Carol
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bunny durant on November 3, 2007 11:17 AM
I am looking for a Jim Brothers who knew my brother Bradley Simmons when they were in the Army and possibly in Vietnam . Im hoping this is the Jim Brothers. bjd112@aol.com
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